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Adelina M.'s avatar

Great article. Reminds me of my favorite quote from F. Scott Fitzgerald.

"The test of a first-rate intelligence is the ability to hold two opposing ideas in the mind at the same time, and still retain the ability to function".

Here's a personal example of both/and. I buy raw milk, and I work in public health and support pasteurized store-bought milk as the safest way to consume milk. I boil my milk at home, and if I didn't, I know that there would be risks. Why someone chooses one over the other typically includes lots of preferences and risk tolerance. They're both right in some ways and wrong in others. Public health folks demonize raw-milk drinkers as MAGA crackpots. Raw-milk drinkers demonize public health as a mindless big-ag conspirator.

I am neither a MAGA crackpot nor a mindless conspirator, but I can agree with some of what both sides have to say...and most days I can still retain the ability to function. 😄

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Alyssa Tsagong's avatar

Yes, yes, yes. I'm the guest editor of the upcoming annual MBC issue of Wildfire Journal, and we chose the theme "paradox" because reality of living with cancer is not binary. I have a lot of gratitude, and a lot of resentment. I feel joy and grief. At the same time. Learning to hold two opposite feeling truths at the same time expands our capacity to live well.

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